The Guilt Was Never Yours to Carry
Alexa Starks Alexa Starks

The Guilt Was Never Yours to Carry

That's the trap, isn't it? The moment you become a mother - especially a working mother - you step into a game you didn't know you'd agreed to play. And the rules are designed so that you cannot win.

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Who Decided What “Professional” Looks Like and Why Mothers Never Fit the Mold
Alexa Starks Alexa Starks

Who Decided What “Professional” Looks Like and Why Mothers Never Fit the Mold

Because motherhood is not a side note. It’s not something you can switch off during business hours. It shapes how you move through the world, how you assess risk, how you respond to urgency, how you allocate energy. Asking mothers to be “professional” often means asking them to pretend a major part of their life doesn’t exist.

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