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August 2026

Presence over pace

Alex Freyer

Co-Founder, MilkWise


Alex Freyer
For the Record

Alex Freyer and Ian Gardner are the co-founders of MilkWise, a maternal health company born from their own experience navigating pregnancy and the impossible task of assembling a holistic care team with nowhere to turn. Alex, a NICU mother who fought to breastfeed her firstborn, brings the lived experience of the mothers MilkWise serves; Ian brings five tech exits and the operational vision to build the clinical infrastructure maternal health has always been missing. Together they have built a platform that connects new parents with International Board Certified Lactation Consultants for insurance-covered, in-home and virtual care, nationwide. MilkWise is their answer to a system that has long asked mothers to figure it out alone.

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Success isn't a title or a company or a milestone. It's a mentality.

Alex Freyer, MilkWise
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Their cover story runs in the August 2026 issue, starting page 8. Below is the actual spread, page for page, exactly as it appears in print.

Alex Freyer speaking on a panel Ian Gardner Alex Freyer with her son Alex Freyer and Ian Gardner

Alexandra, your journey with MilkWise started in the most personal way possible: fighting to breastfeed your NICU baby when the system wasn't making it easy. What did that battle teach you about yourself that you didn't know before?

Alex: I labored for 56 hours before transferring to the hospital, and when my son was finally born, he was taken straight to the NICU. I didn't get to hold him. Those first days were some of the most heartbreaking of my life. Looking back, I realize birth taught me something much bigger than how to become a mother. It fundamentally changed how I think about control. Those practices don't prepare you to control birth. They prepare you to meet whatever birth asks of you.

Building a company together as a married couple is not for the faint of heart. How do you two actually make it work?

Ian: Building a successful company and building a successful marriage share certain things in common. You need a sober and realistic view of where you are and where you're going, and empathy and sensitivity to what's going on for the other person. Alex and I have different skills and swim lanes, and we don't try to go into the other person's world.

Alex: People are often surprised when we say we genuinely don't argue about the business. We've built a relationship where ideas aren't personal. One thing I love most is that our children get to witness that: two parents who genuinely enjoy working together and believe that meaningful work can be an act of service.

Read the full feature in the August 2026 issue.

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